Komunitas
ISSN 2303-1166
Vol. 2 / No. 1 / Published : 2013-02
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Original Article :
Pemenuhan kebutuhan hidup duda dewasa dini” (studi deskriptif pemenuhan kebutuhan hidup duda dewasa dini yang berperan sebagai orangtua tunggal di wilayah kecamatan pare, kabupaten kediri, jawa timur)
Author :
- Oleh : Denis Pitaloka Tifani Program Studi Sosiologi*1
- mahasiswa sosiologi FISIP UNAIR
Abstract :
Abstract A widower raising children alone without a wife's role would have to play a dual role in his family, as a father and mother. Based on the background above, the focus of research is finding out the way the widower acts as a single parent to fulfill living needs. Researcher uses the theory of Abraham Harold Maslow about Hierarchy of Needs and also theory of William F. Ogburn dan Mayern Nimkoff about Social Integration. This research is using qualitative descriptive qualitative research. The target of the research is focused on Widower who are at an early adult age categories, that is between 18-40 years, have officially divorced, has the custody right of the child, domicile in Pare Sub District, Kediri, East Java. Informant selection techniques is using the purposive one. Data was collected through interviews and documentary studies. Based on the results of the study, the data that being obtained is that there is answer variation on the physiological needs fulfillment such as in terms of meeting food needs that still need help from others, less rest time, fulfilling the sexual needs by way of adultery, and have the same desire to remarry. Data variations about the fulfillment of security need can be seen from the ability to fulfill family needs from the revenue generated, proficiency in critical situations (eg a sick child), and also the inability to protect themselves from both internal and external factors. The need for love and belonging have been fulfilled well enough. Although previous marriage without any coercion from anyone, but after the divorce happens, feelings of love and affection are only addressed to the child. The need for high self-esteem is evident from the feelings of jealousy and also the feeling of being different from the majority of people in the neighborhood who have a spouse. It rises the feeling of inferiority, shame, less self-confident when interacting with others. However, the support from surrounding people will be able to help their effort to socialize again with the environment. There is significant data variation in terms of fulfilling the need of self-actualization. The courage to perform certain act as a form of self-actualizing only done by one informant alone. Meanwhile, two other informants have no courage to take action to actualize themselves. It is because of their fear of risks and the outcome which is still uncertain and because of lack of capital. Keywords : Widower, Single Parent, Fulfillment of Living Needs.
Keyword :
widower, single parent, fulfillment of living needs,
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